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You're Qualified, But Do They Like You?

March 20, 2008 (10:00AM) by Michael Neece

Emotions make up the fabric of all relationships; they're woven through every human interaction, including hiring. The job seeker's emotional journey is well known – anticipation, disappointment, trepidation, uncertainty, elation – but have you ever considered the highs and lows that interviewers undergo during the hiring dance? Yes, interviewers experience their own stresses and anxieties. And the most qualified candidate is never the one they hire. Rather, the candidate who gets the offer is the one who makes the strongest emotional connection with the interviewers.

With more than 20 years in the hiring game, I've witnessed thousands of interviewing cycles. Although a hiring process might start with a specific, written job description that spells out exactly what qualifications the "ideal candidate" should have, there is no perfect candidate. The final hiring decision is filled with the emotions, illusions, and opinions of the interviewing team.

Interviewers are Emotional 
Hiring managers and interviewers experience a range of increased emotions as the hiring process unfolds from writing the job description and reading resumes to conducting phone screens, interviewing face-to-face, and finally, delivering job offers. Their assignment is to find a qualified candidate who can not only do the job, but be accepted by and complement the people already in place.

At the root of these emotions is the fact that hiring the best applicants is part of the interviewer's and hiring manager's job, and they'll be judged on how well they do it. If the company hires you based on their recommendation, and you turn out to be a bad employee, it reflects poorly on them. So as an applicant, part of what you need to convey is that you will make them look good.

They Have to Like You
Job applicants often feel they're competing with a perfectly qualified "ghost" candidate. Rest assured, this perfect candidate does not exist. Even the job description is not analytical; it's simply a best guess of what qualifications a person should have to do a particular job well. It might have been written by an HR person who doesn't understand the job. It might have been written five years ago. It may or may not reflect the reality of the job today.

Companies perpetuate the illusion of the perfect applicant by rejecting candidates with phrases like, "We found a stronger candidate for this position." When you don't get the offer, despite excellent qualifications, the truth is that the interviewers chose someone they like better. That doesn't mean you're inherently less likable than the person they hired; it just means they established a better rapport with the other candidate. (I'll write about techniques for building rapport in another post.)

The mistake most applicants make is assuming the interview process is logical and analytical. In reality, it's filled with the emotions of every individual you interact with along the way. Encourage the interviewers to like you by building rapport with each of them. If they do like you, you've got more than a "ghost" of a chance of getting the job.

How has being liked, or not liked, affected your career?

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Comments (8)

I always hire who I like! I could interview the most qualified person for my job opening but if I do not connect with them, I continue my search. And, if I have 2 candidates, one of whom is a bit less experienced but I like that one better, I will hire him/her. A connection between employee and manager is key to success!

Posted by: Mary Ellen | March 21, 2008 at 4:14 PM | Quote This Comment

I never thought about the pressure the interviewer is under as well – their time and reputation is on the line. If they hire me and I mess up – it looks bad for them too. Knowing this can give us an edge, something we all need when looking for work.

Posted by: Greg | March 24, 2008 at 1:07 PM | Quote This Comment

You are right, the way interviews are conducted is totally wrong. When will anyone in the hiring business work out that interviews exist purely to discriminate against people who are not the same kind of person as HR people or managers. How can it possibly make sense to reject someone on the basis that they have a "dull personality" or are less clever at appearing interested or some other social trick?

Posted by: Tony | April 27, 2008 at 10:38 PM | Quote This Comment

When interviewers select the candidate they like and the new employee performs poorly, the interviewers end up not liking their selected hire. But whenever this happens, the interviewers blame the candidate. The interviewers rarely take accountability for their decision.

An article by ScientificSelection.com (http://www.scientificselection.com) reveals that traditional interviews have only a 4% predictability index. Meaning traditional interviews have a 4% probability of accurately predicting a candidate's job performance.

So what can we do as candidates to improve our chances of getting the job offer? Focus on controlling only those things you can control. This means making sure you communicate effectively and make sure every interviewer understands your talents accurately. This means you have to prepare your answers in advance and ask questions throughout the interview.

Posted by: Michael Neece, Chief Strategy Officer | April 28, 2008 at 9:46 AM | Quote This Comment

thanks for this new and nice information. I did not expect that employers will mostly hire those whom they like the most regardless of being less qualified. Stay good,

hamad

Posted by: hamad | January 11, 2009 at 3:21 AM | Quote This Comment

Interesting... just went on an interview this week and was told I was the most qualified of all the candidates. Sitting here baffled tonight as I was told today that I did NOT get the job... they went with another candidate. I was likeable as well as qualified. Guess someone else was just more likeable.

Posted by: Lauren | January 16, 2009 at 8:40 PM | Quote This Comment

Please let me know all pharmaceutical plant Mail ID in India & aboard so thaty i can apply.

Posted by: somanath | April 25, 2009 at 11:13 AM | Quote This Comment

Interesting thanks for the feedback, I feel less threatened knowing it is not all about qualifications.

Posted by: maren | May 13, 2010 at 9:04 PM | Quote This Comment

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